Do you want to explain it to them? There are very few derogatory expressions which have slipped entirely free from their original meaning (“berk” is the only one that comes readily to mind), and I suggest you don’t use “brown-noser” to people you wouldn’t also be willing to say “arse” in front of (or “ass”, for out American friends).
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